Training Them Wisely - discipling kids

Teaching Kids to Obey From the Heart
Obedience matters, but God cares about more than outward behavior. In this episode of Training Them Wisely, we talk about how to correct our children with both firmness and grace while helping them understand what is happening in their hearts. We discuss using Scripture in everyday correction, teaching repentance, and pointing our children to Jesus rather than simply telling them to try harder.
Check out all of our family discipleship resources at https://www.trainingthemwisely.com
Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible, copyright © 2001 by Crossway. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Intro/outro music: “Indie Pop - Indie Pop Music” by JonasBlakewood. Used under the Pixabay Content License.

Our children are hearing messages every day from culture, media, friends, entertainment, social media, music, books, and the world around them.
Some lies are easy to recognize. Others sound kind, freeing, popular, wise, or even compassionate.
So how do we help our kids learn to tell the difference between what sounds good and what is actually true?
In this episode of the Training Them Wisely Podcast, we talk about how to help children develop biblical discernment without parenting from fear. The goal is not to make our children suspicious of everything around them, but to help them know God’s Word so well that they can recognize when a message does not line up with truth. We want them to develop a biblical worldview
We discuss practical ways parents can help children evaluate what they are watching, reading, hearing, and experiencing by asking questions such as:
What is this teaching me?
What does this say is good, normal, funny, or desirable?
Does this line up with Scripture?
What kind of fruit does this produce?
Is this influencing me toward wisdom or foolishness?
Am I being compassionate without compromising truth?
We also talk about the importance of teaching children biblical vocabulary so they have words and categories for understanding concepts like sin, repentance, grace, holiness, wisdom, and more.
And because discernment is learned through practice, we look at how parents can model this kind of thinking in everyday life—while also being willing to admit when we need to make a different choice ourselves.
In This Episode
We talk about:
What biblical discernment really means
Why discernment begins with truth rather than fear
Teaching children to ask, “What is this teaching me?”
How culture can redefine words like love, identity, freedom, and truth
Using the Fruit of the Spirit as a discernment framework
Helping kids think wisely about friendships and influence
The difference between compassion and compromise
Teaching children to test messages against Scripture
Why biblical vocabulary matters
Modeling discernment as parents
Filling our homes with what is true, good, and beautiful
Scriptures Mentioned
Hebrews 5:14
Psalm 119:160
John 17:17
1 Corinthians 13:6
Matthew 7:16
Galatians 5:22–23
1 Corinthians 15:33
Proverbs 13:20
John 1:14
Ephesians 4:15
Acts 17
2 Corinthians 10:5
Philippians 4:8
This Week’s Simple Step
Choose one thing your child is already watching, reading, listening to, or talking about and have a simple discernment conversation.
Ask:
What is this teaching us?Does it agree with Scripture?What fruit does it produce?
For younger children, you might ask:
Is this wise or foolish?Is this true or not true?Does this help us love and obey God?
For older children and teens, ask:
What worldview is behind this message?What does it say about identity, truth, happiness, or sin?How does God’s Word help us evaluate it?
Keep the conversation natural. The goal is not to catch your child enjoying something wrong. The goal is to train them to think biblically.
Resources Mentioned
Training Them Wisely resources are designed to help families open God’s Word, build biblical vocabulary, and apply truth to everyday life.
Resources that connect naturally with this episode include:
Who I Am in Christ
Big Bible Words Explained for Curious Kids
What the Bible Says Love Is
Fruit of the Spirit
Training Them Wisely Bible Studies
Next Episode
Next time, we will talk about teaching kids to obey from the heart—moving beyond simply managing behavior and helping children understand obedience as a response to God.
Until then, keep opening God’s Word, keep pointing your children to Christ, and keep training them wisely.Quick note from Rene: This episode is coming out a little late. We have had a couple of life changes recently in our family that required dropping a few things to take care of some urgent needs. However, we are back and track and excited to be putting out these episodes every two weeks again! Thanks for your patience! 
Check out all of our family discipleship resources at https://www.trainingthemwisely.com
Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible, copyright © 2001 by Crossway. Used by permission. All rights reserved.Intro/outro music: “Indie Pop - Indie Pop Music” by JonasBlakewood. Used under the Pixabay Content License.

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Training Them Wisely resources are designed to help families open God’s Word, ask thoughtful questions, and apply biblical truth to daily life. Visit trainingthemwisely.com to find Bible studies and discipleship tools for your family.
Check out all of our family discipleship resources at https://www.trainingthemwisely.com
Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible, copyright © 2001 by Crossway. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible, copyright © 2001 by Crossway. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible, copyright © 2001 by Crossway. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible, copyright © 2001 by Crossway. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible, copyright © 2001 by Crossway. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible, copyright © 2001 by Crossway. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Check out our family discipleship resources at TrainingThemWisely.com
 
Scripture quotations are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.